<h2 style="text-align: center; font-size: 16pt;">Being With Uncertainty</h2>
Editor&rsquo;s Note: We asked the inimitable Lou Romero if he&rsquo;d be willing to share a few words of wisdom during this odd era of COVID-19. Of late, we have been thinking, reading, and hearing more and more about the anxieties many people feel living in this uncertainty. We hope Lou's words bring you an extra measure of peace today and in coming weeks.&nbsp; &nbsp;
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We are called &ldquo;human beings.&rdquo;&nbsp;
I want to align my daily DOING with my BEING; the person I say I want to BE. My behaviors are born from a thought or feeling which grows into an intention, behavior, and actions. At age 78, especially during this &lsquo;pandemic&rsquo; time, I need a daily reminder of my intentions:
<ul>
<li>BE CALM: Focus on positive, hopeful, grateful thoughts that guide my self-awareness, self-talk, behavior, and actions. Have faith and hope that &lsquo;this too shall pass&rsquo; and we will have gained greater awareness about our interdependence locally and in the world. Allow time to meditate, pray, read, write, listen to music, and nap. </li>
<li>BE CREATIVE: Find projects that give me purpose and fulfillment; work on different ways to serve others; learn how to do new tasks; do some things I used to enjoy but haven&rsquo;t done in a long time; pause to think differently and surface new ideas for dealing with my current reality, both short-term and long&hellip;. </li>
<li>BE COMPASSIONATE: Take care of myself first so I can care for others; be kind and patient with myself when I get frustrated with &lsquo;what is&rsquo;; reach out to family and friends with kindness, knowing that everyone is dealing with uncertainty in their own way; avoid trying to &lsquo;preach&rsquo; how to be&hellip;be a good listener&hellip;. </li>
<li>BE COURAGEOUS: Address what I can control to improve &lsquo;what is&rsquo;; prepare for unusual situations that may require choices I have never faced before; think about ways to mitigate &lsquo;worst case scenarios&rsquo; with courage and confidence. </li>
<li>And then there is COMMITMENT. How do I know if I am ready to commit to an intention&hellip;or am I already committed? Do they remain only intentions? When I definitely commit to a behavior, task, action, or outcome&hellip;I feel and think differently. I can actually feel an inner change in my emotions and my sense of urgency. &nbsp;</li>
</ul>
 Years ago, a close friend gave me a plaque about COMMITMENT that reads:&nbsp;
&ldquo;Until one is committed, there is hesitancy,&nbsp; the chance to draw back, always ineffective&hellip;
Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation),&nbsp; there is one elemental truth, the ignorance of which&nbsp; kills countless ideas and splendid plans;
That the moment one definitively commits oneself,&nbsp; then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that&nbsp; would never otherwise have occurred.
A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one&rsquo;s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which could not have been dreamt to have come one&rsquo;s way.
I have learned a deep respect for&nbsp; one of Goethe&rsquo;s couplets: 
&lsquo;Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.&rsquo;&rdquo;
That quote has served as a positive reminder to me when hesitating to go &lsquo;all in.&rsquo;
 Another meaningful, powerful quote that prompts me to be mindful about how I am BEING simply reads:
&ldquo;There is no happiness that is secure and nothing that does not change.&rdquo;
This quote (by St. Teresa de &Aacute;vila, a 16th century scholar) was presented to me by my wife to commemorate our having beaten prostate cancer in November 1995. We&rsquo;d vacationed in Spain to celebrate, and one of our favorite stops was &Aacute;vila. We found it to be a beautiful place with a charming town square, friendly people, a cathedral in the middle, and nuns&rsquo; convent.&nbsp;I have internalized that quote for a quarter-century now. I examine what happiness means to me. Happiness is an enduring sense of inner peace; contentment that I have Purpose, Meaning, Fulfillment, and Spiritual growth in my life.&nbsp;
How do I feel and know when my happiness is fading? What do I do when that happens? I can usually detect when something is changing (or has already changed, now producing a feeling of anxiety). Anxiety disturbs my sense of happiness. When I finally accept that feeling, it prompts me to be introspective about the causes. I often find that I am neglecting one or more of my core values in some way. Once I identify the source, if it is something within my control&hellip;I can start making changes and commitments to return to a state of happiness. &nbsp;
 Frequently, the Serenity Prayer also grounds me and reduces my anxiety:
&ldquo;God, grant me the SERENITY to accept the things I cannot change,&nbsp; COURAGE to change the things I can,&nbsp; and the WISDOM to know the difference.&rdquo;
 I hope this prayer&mdash;or any of the other tools I&rsquo;ve shared here today&mdash;might do the same for you during these trying times.&nbsp;
May peace be with you always,
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TIPS & TOOLS, Article 6: "Being With Uncertainty"

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Say it isn&rsquo;t so, Harvard; say it isn&rsquo;t so!
(Care to predict the street price of each respective first-to-market vaccine and antiviral drug once FDA-approved? In the voice of Billy Crudup: PRICELESS.)
Here&rsquo;s the latest on that front:&nbsp;<a style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; text-decoration-line: none; font-family: inherit;" href="https://time.com/5819965/coronavirus-treatments-research/?fbclid=IwAR0RagwLL0zP7QMDVdHpMByP0BOtzMVwgCZtTfJPuFvztxjQ1VIWiYqC3PU" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow" data-ft="{&quot;tn&quot;:&quot;-U&quot;}" data-lynx-mode="asynclazy" data-lynx-uri="https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Ftime.com%2F5819965%2Fcoronavirus-treatments-research%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR0RagwLL0zP7QMDVdHpMByP0BOtzMVwgCZtTfJPuFvztxjQ1VIWiYqC3PU&amp;h=AT0K5UPul1bXmp-0WO_iFBBIw5ZiGWcr80QHT6N-jZw6papKpy6D8AZrT332NFbLW4Wr6Quwjtya7fqvqS5o31Z9w1c44oer0gv1UXWpFtNH2mc40RHLzdxr6_7CRlVXDYAQX2kgDNm1VPpRq5viu2jRC4VG">https://time.com/5819965/coronavirus-treatments-research/&nbsp;</a>
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I&rsquo;m convinced the &ldquo;restarting/reopening the US&rdquo; reality is somewhere between May 1 optimism and 2022 pessimism. After all, necessity is the mother of invention. Humankind, entrepreneurship, our collective global economy, and science won&rsquo;t abide recurring waves of social distancing through 2022, but the mental image of full 60,000-persons-plus US football stadiums 120 days from now beggars belief.
I would LOVE immediate restoration at the snap of a cosmic finger, but I suspect we&rsquo;re in for a slow, slogging, sputtering summer of fits and starts succeeded by an autumn of intermittent postponements, outright cancellations, and en vogue venue restrictions (a smaller, limited number of event seats available only at premium prices, or to premier ticket holders, or perhaps by lottery where supply and demand feels elitist and becomes another casualty of&nbsp;<a class="_58cn" style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; text-decoration-line: none; font-family: inherit;" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/cancel?source=feed_text&amp;epa=HASHTAG" data-ft="{&quot;type&quot;:104,&quot;tn&quot;:&quot;*N&quot;}">#cancel</a>&nbsp;culture).
I think legal liability (real and perceived) will continue to have a chilling effect on many large hosting entities, e.g., the NFL, Ticketmaster, convention centers and the like. And then, one day, some weeks or months hence, enough individuals and outlier organizations arguing their freedoms have been trounced upon by pursuits in the name of the greater good will become a chorus, and we shall see where, exactly, interests tip: toward commerce, free markets, the pursuit of happiness, and individualism/individual liberties, or public health. (A real, live prisoner&rsquo;s dilemma, Sophie&rsquo;s choice, Gordian knot if ever there was one.)
That tension feels front and center every day, from China to South Korea to Europe to WH press briefings to state governors&rsquo; pacts and others&rsquo; discord, to a swelling number of recent lawsuits brought against government.
What a time to...be. Alive.
And to see.
<a href="https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2020-04-14/harvard-researchers-say-some-distancing-may-be-needed-into-2022?fbclid=IwAR1_WlwV6XTGS0kZKH7pENMB4p3a_NhY0CtILSm7CiTiScZD2FnTHIT2FL4">https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2020-04-14/harvard-researchers-say-some-distancing-may-be-needed-into-2022?fbclid=IwAR1_WlwV6XTGS0kZKH7pENMB4p3a_NhY0CtILSm7CiTiScZD2FnTHIT2FL4</a>
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Looking Ahead

<h2 style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Graduate from Grief</h2>
Grief is the process of putting back together the pieces of a broken heart&mdash;a hole so deep in the middle of your heart that you think it will never stop hurting.
You&rsquo;re hurting; you've suffered a loss; you've survived the death of a loved one or a relationship; you've lost your job; you've lost your identity or reputation; you've lost your money; you've lost your home; you are scared, hurt, confused, and you don't know what to do....
Welcome to&nbsp;grief, the completely normal, appropriate emotional response to loss. You feel it emotionally, physically, mentally, and behaviorally.&nbsp;It comes in waves and it won&rsquo;t go away. (At least, that is what you think.)&nbsp;
Everyone grieves differently; there is no right or wrong way to grieve.&nbsp;And you will get through it; most people do. But contrary to popular opinion&hellip;
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<h3 align="center">Time, alone, does not heal a broken heart.&nbsp;</h3>
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You will graduate from grief when&nbsp;you&nbsp;decide to do so.
Along the way, there will be many obstacles that make it difficult to grieve, among them:
<ol>
<li>People&rsquo;s expectations.&nbsp; What do I say to people?</li>
<li>Band-Aid cures. &nbsp;&ldquo;Try this,&rdquo; blah, blah, blah.</li>
<li>Relocation. &nbsp;I&rsquo;ll just move away.</li>
<li>Undeclared decrees.&nbsp; This will just go away.</li>
<li>You.&nbsp; This is not the time to compare yourself with others.</li>
</ol>
Every crisis is a leadership opportunity, and this is your opportunity to lead yourself to resolution and acceptance, but you&rsquo;re probably thinking, How do I do that? I&rsquo;m a mess right now!
The answer is you do it&nbsp;one step at a time. In fact, when they look back on their experience, many people will say that it was a cycle of learning&hellip;a gradual return to what will be a &ldquo;new normal.&rdquo; This is why it can be seen as graduating&nbsp;from grief.
We don&rsquo;t have to deny our loss in order to say goodbye. In fact, your very first step in the learning cycle is to embrace the truth.&nbsp;Staying in denial will only impede your progress. It will also compromise your integrity.
Be willing to&nbsp;share your truth with others. Sharing helps you heal. Keeping it inside will wear you out. By sharing your truth, you will learn that your experience is not unique; you are not alone.
Learn how to&nbsp;accept a support system and express your feelings. Thoughts determine feelings, and feelings determine actions. Stop any negative self-talk. You are moving forward.
When you are willing to express your personal feelings, admit your own limitations, and embrace a teachable spirit&hellip;you will experience&nbsp;vulnerability, which is&nbsp;the foundation of your&nbsp;new normal&nbsp;and your primary credential for&nbsp;graduation.
How will I know that I am progressing? Here are two keys that most people report:
<ol>
<li>I have built a support system of committed people that I can rely on to lend a hand in practical ways. One person is not enough. When friends ask if I need help, I say YES! Your willingness to be vulnerable will break down the barriers of doing it all by yourself&hellip;and get You out of the way of YOU!</li>
<li>I can report my feelings directly, without vague cover. For example, I&rsquo;m able to admit, &ldquo;I feel good.&rdquo; &ldquo;I feel lonely.&rdquo; &ldquo;I feel sad.&rdquo; &ldquo;I feel happy.&rdquo; Truth prevails, confidently.</li>
</ol>
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What will my new normal look like? Everyone is different, but most report:
<ol>
<li>I can deal honestly with my loss. I walk in integrity and truth.</li>
<li>I have learned to say goodbye to my loss.</li>
<li>I have forgiven the Who, What, Where, and How of my loss.</li>
<li>Anger and guilt no longer control me.</li>
<li>I have HOPE and I look forward with pleasure, confidence, and expectation.</li>
<li>I have learned how to heal and restore myself.&nbsp;</li>
</ol>
Your New Normal
The recognition and acceptance at an emotional level that life has changed, and new opportunities are on the horizon.
The &ldquo;Grief to Graduation&rdquo; Learning Cycle
<ol>
<li>Grief event occurs;</li>
<li>I come to terms with its reality in my life;</li>
<li>I learn to speak honestly and publicly about my feelings;</li>
<li>I accept assistance when offered;</li>
<li>I accept my vulnerability;</li>
<li>I say goodbye to my loss;</li>
<li>I say hello to my new normal;</li>
<li>I say &ldquo;Happy Graduation;&rdquo;</li>
<li>I embrace hope.</li>
</ol>
In conclusion,&nbsp;pain is inevitable. Misery is optional.&nbsp;
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Author&rsquo;s Note:&nbsp;Portions of this article are attributable to my experiences teaching&nbsp;Grief Release&nbsp;classes with&nbsp;<a href="http://bristolhospice-oregon.com/about-us/our-teammedical-directors/">Joanne Petrie, Bereavement Chaplain at Bristol Hospice in Portland, Oregon</a>.

TIPS & TOOLS, Article 5: "Graduate from Grief"

<h2 align="center">&nbsp;</h2>
<h2 align="center">Flip the Switch&mdash;Turn on the LIGHT!</h2>
Do you notice? Throughout the lexicon of this existing malaise, I&rsquo;m noticing increasing references to the word &ldquo;light.&rdquo; Including, but not limited to, my coaching conversations with coachees.
<blockquote>
&ldquo;&hellip;we need to be light.&rdquo;
&ldquo;&hellip;there&rsquo;s so much darkness; we&rsquo;re called to be light.&rdquo;
&ldquo;&hellip;I&rsquo;m trying to be light with my team&hellip;.&rdquo;
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This is just a sampling of phrases I&rsquo;ve heard in recent weeks.&nbsp;And, every once in a while, the word shows up in TV news interviews as I monitor the latest COVID-19 briefing out of Washington, D.C., followed by the state/local news updates.
I&rsquo;m pondering...&nbsp;&nbsp;What&rsquo;s &ldquo;light&rdquo; all about? What are behavioral, actionable practices for LIGHT in the midst of our new rhythm of life with COVID-19?&nbsp;
Reflect back to a time we all remember too well, September 11, 2001. You, no doubt, remember exactly where you were at the time, if you&rsquo;re old enough. The earthquake-jarring experience that reverberated deep within our individual and collective souls and spirits.&nbsp;
Where were you? Who were you with? What were you feeling? I remember gathering around my Dallas workplace office with tens of others, just trying to process it all. I was numb&hellip;shell-shocked.&nbsp;&nbsp;Unmoored like everyone else.
While 9/11 was a significant jolt, the current environment has been more of a &ldquo;slow-cooker evolution&rdquo; along &ldquo;the curve.&rdquo; Just as I write this, a friend is texting, apologizing for not responding in a timely fashion to my question yesterday. She was detoured making masks for her nurse sister until she ran out of elastic. Board games and puzzles are flying off the shelves as old becomes new again. First responder friends are assigned to working in the COVID-19 hospital ward this week. They are scared. I&rsquo;m sure you can relate to these themes echoed in your own circle of life.
Once we start to get a grip on reality with our adult selves, we shift to thinking about kids&mdash;their mental health. How do we help them make sense of it all? &ldquo;Why can&rsquo;t I go to school?&rdquo; &ldquo;Why can&rsquo;t my friends come over for my birthday party?&rdquo; &ldquo;Where&rsquo;s Grandma and Grandpa?&rdquo; &ldquo;Mommy&rsquo;s a nurse and stays alone in the bedroom all day.&rdquo; We&rsquo;re all isolated and distancing to a new degree and hunkered down.&nbsp;
Flashback to 2001 and 9/11. Back to the kids...
September 13, 2001: A friend and I decided to take action. The friend&rsquo;s daughter, MacKenzie, was in 3rd grade at a Plano, Texas elementary school. We reached out to her teacher with an idea regarding concerns about mental health. An idea to help shift the thinking and focus of the kids. To shift from trauma, the unknown, fear, uncertainty to a practice of gratitude.&nbsp;The teacher, Mrs. Riley, was all in&mdash;&ldquo;let&rsquo;s do it on Monday!&rdquo; she exclaimed.
Monday arrived. My friend showed up in the classroom. We supplied the notecards (Exhibit A) and postage. Teacher Riley stood up in front of the classroom and gave each 3rd grader an assignment: &ldquo;Think big and be bold! Despite all that is changing, we have so much to be grateful for. What are you grateful for? Your assignment is to write a letter of gratitude to someone for how they are making a difference today. We&rsquo;ll place them in envelopes and mail them all!&rdquo;
(Exhibit A)
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Meanwhile, a reporter and videographer from the local Fox News TV affiliate showed up. Someone tipped reporters off to Mrs. Riley&rsquo;s 3rd grade classroom activity.
Cameras were rolling. Nine-year-old Jack stood up and read his letter aloud to the President of the Red Cross. The videographer transitioned to Amanda reading her letter to the Fire Chief of New York City. Finally, MacKenzie stood up and read her handwritten letter to Queen Elizabeth II&mdash;thanking the Queen for allowing the Palace Guards to play America&rsquo;s &ldquo;Star-Spangled Banner&rdquo; at Buckingham Palace on September 13, 2001. (Exhibit B)&nbsp;
(Exhibit B)
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Guess who was featured on the Dallas evening news &ldquo;Hometown Heroes&rdquo; segment?
Fast forward five weeks to October. Imagine little MacKenzie walking to her mailbox. Amidst the flyers, bills and junk mail she discovers an envelope addressed to her and runs inside to tell Mom and Dad. You guessed it&mdash;an airmail envelope enclosed with letterhead from Buckingham Palace and Queen Elizabeth II (Exhibit C), thanking MacKenzie:&nbsp;&ldquo;The Queen thanks you very much for your kind message&hellip;.&rdquo;&nbsp;Wow! Intention. Gratitude. Hope. Trust the Tapestry.
(Exhibit C)
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Discovering and practicing gratitude is just one aspect of LIGHT, albeit an important one. There&rsquo;s more, of course. As I continue to reflect on LIGHT and gain clarity around actionable practices, thoughts emerged of a coaching tool.
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To all my coachees, this coaching tool is for you. You inspired it, and, truth be told, it's as much yours now as it is mine.(On iPhone, press the image to Share, Add to Photos, or Copy. On desktop, Save or Copy the image to Forward or Print at desired scale.)
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You continue to inspire me beyond measure, as you:
<ul>
<li>Remain resilient despite the roadblocks</li>
<li>Persevere through the pressure</li>
<li>Shine alongside the suffering</li>
<li>Create clarity amidst the chaos</li>
<li>Remain tireless throughout the tumult</li>
<li>Insist upon integrity</li>
<li>Remain undaunted by the unknown</li>
<li>Pursue progress without expecting perfection</li>
</ul>
All the while continuing to&hellip;
<ul>
<li>Fire and light the flames within your family</li>
<li>While (importantly) remembering to take good care of yourself</li>
</ul>
I am so grateful for you. And I remain in your balcony cheering you on.
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I&rsquo;m reminded of the quote by Albert Schweitzer:
<blockquote>
&ldquo;At times our own light goes out and is
rekindled by a spark&nbsp;from another person.&nbsp;
Each of us has cause to think with
deep gratitude of those who have
lighted the flame within us.&rdquo;
</blockquote>
There are no silver bullets in times like these, but, if you&rsquo;re anything like me (and those I have the great privilege to coach right now), sometimes all we need is a gentle reminder. Gentle reminders (be they a coaching tool, a kind word of encouragement, or even <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8YuWAZmD0aU&amp;feature=youtu.be" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a song</a> among them) that serve to nudge and propel us forward.&nbsp;&nbsp;
And, yes, even &ldquo;LIGHT&rdquo; our way.&nbsp;One step, one breath, one day at a time.
May we each discover our unique ways to&nbsp;attract LIGHT&nbsp;and to&nbsp;be LIGHT&nbsp;during this unprecedented season of opportunity and new rhythm of life.
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TIPS & TOOLS, Article 4: "Flip the Switch—Turn on the LIGHT!"

<h2 style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Four Steps to New Perspective</h2>
I&rsquo;m a big believer in perspective. In fact, it&rsquo;s probably the common denominator in most everything I write and teach because it's a force multiplier. This being the case, I thought today might be a fine time to share four steps to a new perspective. Whether you&rsquo;re an early bird, night owl, or hummingbird, you can incorporate these anywhere in your daily routine. And if you're an introvert or Swainson's Warbler (arguably the world's shyest bird), well then, you can incorporate the steps into your solo lunches!
Step 1: Unplug (from the news, from social media, from others&mdash;be they family, friends, co-workers).
Step 2: Then set a timer for 15 minutes to feel sorry for yourself. Doubt. Fear. Shake your fist at the world, at leadership, at the market, or scream into the wilderness for all I care. Whatever poison&rsquo;s coursing through your veins, this is your &lsquo;free time&rsquo; to let it run unbridled, unchecked, full out. Scratch it down in your journal if you want. Just make sure you get it all out, because you won&rsquo;t get this chance for another 24 hours :-)
Step 3:When the timer chimes, turn the page in every way: mentally, physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, socially, relationally, and on paper. Count your blessings. For what are you thankful this day? Allow an attitude of gratitude to pour through you as you&nbsp;write down every single positive thing that comes to your mind. &ldquo;I am grateful I can think.&rdquo; &ldquo;I am grateful for this pen.&rdquo; &ldquo;I am grateful for this page.&rdquo; &ldquo;I am grateful I have the use of my hand to write on this page.&rdquo; &ldquo;I am grateful I am not alone.&rdquo; &ldquo;I am grateful the sun rose today.&rdquo; List as many of the 'good things' (aka&nbsp;blessings) as you can for as long as you&rsquo;d like. When you&rsquo;re done, re-read them one last time, aloud, even if you&rsquo;re only whispering to yourself.
Step 4: Now turn your attention to the world and go make it a better place. Give back. Think of someone, anyone, to whom you WILL &lsquo;pay forward&rsquo; some kindness in the coming hours. For example:
I received a text the other day that read, in part,&ldquo;Please give me an update about how you are dealing with our new reality, how you think about it philosophically, and, most importantly, your health.&rdquo;
And Sunday morning, I came across a missed call and voicemail from an old friend: &ldquo;Just calling to give you 'a check-up from the neck-up.&rsquo; I&rsquo;m just taking time to call and check on friends whom I love and care about. Just want you to know I love you, I&rsquo;m thinking of you, and I wish you well.&rdquo;
And yesterday morning, a text from a freelancer and her family: "Checking in to see how you're doing. Please let me know how we can be praying for you."
Beautiful, right?
These buoys buoyed me, and I, in turn, did my very best to pay that positive energy forward by sending a number of texts to others, ordering takeout in a micro-effort to support two locally-owned restaurants that are struggling...and tipping an amount equal to the food and drink cost should it make a difference in the servers' day. Who knows, maybe it'll make the choice between paying the water bill or the electric bill this month a both/and moment.
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I once read, &ldquo;How can you taste my tea if you won&rsquo;t empty your own cup first?&rdquo;
Try these four steps this coming week and let me know how it goes. Be disciplined; do them all.
You can&rsquo;t control the world, but you can control your behavior in it and your reaction to it.
Tell me how the tea tastes.
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Onward and upward!
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TIPS & TOOLS, Article 3: "Four Steps to New Perspective"

<h3 style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;" align="center">Testing Positive: Staying Upbeat in Hard Times</h3>
Getting extraordinary things done in extraordinary times requires A LOT of positive energy. These are extraordinary times. Upbeat leaders know the importance of energizing and inspiring others to push through tough challenges. They model an optimistic attitude, not by shallow cheerleading, but by stoking the fire within themselves first.&nbsp;
That&rsquo;s not easy when truckloads of bad news seem to be dumped at our doorstep each morning. So, how do you live with what Henry Van Dyke called &ldquo;forward face and un-reluctant soul&rdquo;? Here are four suggestions that may help:
Staff Meeting of One: Even when we decide to lead with positivity, we often need to deal with our inner negatives. Sometimes inner voices argue: &ldquo;No one is going to take you seriously. You are the least positive person I know. Sometimes Bad is just Bad!&rdquo; How do you quiet down those negative inner voices, even when they sound so convincing?
Instead of ignoring those voices, one executive I know calls an &ldquo;Inner Board Meeting.&rdquo; He begins each day having a conversation with the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual parts of himself&hellip;his &ldquo;personal board of directors.&rdquo; He asks each board member to speak up and express how they are doing. His Mind dumps all its thoughts, strategies, doubts and worries.&nbsp; His Emotions name what they are feeling, and his Body speaks up about what it needs today.
He lets each part have their say but no single voice dominates the meeting. He &ldquo;chairs&rdquo; the meeting so that he can address real concerns and move positively into his day without the internal noise. Calling this &ldquo;staff meeting of one&rdquo; keeps those inner voices from canceling out the positive directions you want to take.
Cultivating Gratitude: The positive leader is fully informed and faces the reality of circumstances, but never loses sight of the good things happening as well. Even in hard times, victories are occurring around us. People are stepping up in ways that can be acknowledged and celebrated. Little grace-moments are blooming that if noticed and appreciated, will fuel our enthusiasm and spark others to notice those things too. No one can be simultaneously bitter, pessimistic and deeply grateful at the same time. When do you carve out time to survey the daily good things that have happened and been gifted to you?
Replenishing Your Spiritual Capital: Positive energy requires fuel, and no matter how sunny your disposition may be, that fuel isn&rsquo;t pumped from within ourselves. We need an outside source if we are going to consistently move in hopeful and helpful directions. We draw wisdom, comfort and guidance from our chosen faith traditions.Keep company with resilient, buoyant leaders, whether it is by reading great works and words of past heroes, following wise encouraging leaders through social media and podcasts, or picking up the phone to check in with forward-leaning friends.
Where are the spiritual reserves that will supply you for the long haul?
Relaxing and Recharging Daily: At my house, we&rsquo;ve started an official &ldquo;Happy Hour&rdquo; where we stop working, set out some special snacks and drinks, turn up the tunes and enjoy one another&rsquo;s company for a bit. No matter what has happened or may still happen during the day, when Happy Hour starts, worry, complaining, and grinding stops.
Presidential scholar and author, Doris Kearns Goodwin notes that during some of the most difficult days in our country&rsquo;s history, our greatest leaders knew the importance of taking a break from the action. Abraham Lincoln went to the theater more than 100 times during the Civil War. Teddy Roosevelt exercised for two hours each day. FDR had a cocktail party most nights of the war, with one rule: No talking about the war. Each knew the value of slowing down and recharging if they were going to stand up to the challenges of their day.
Genuine enthusiasm doesn&rsquo;t grow from a glued-on smile. And thanks to social distancing, no one would see it anyway. Part of the magic of great leadership is the ability to project optimism and confidence into other people. Remember, we can&rsquo;t give what we don&rsquo;t have, but we can find everything we need to lead in positive directions. Which one of these practices would help energize you most?
Until next time,
Onward and upward!
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TIPS & TOOLS, Article 2: "Testing Positive: Staying Upbeat in Hard Times"

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Is Your Bubble Bursting?
Ours is, but we&rsquo;re not alone. Sandwiched somewhere in the middle between COVID-19 deniers and outright doomsdayers lie the rest of us, the majority. We&rsquo;re not professional athletes, celebrities, politicians, or the frontline of defense or attack in this world war, but we are consequential in this fight and doing our part as asked by temporarily retreating from the outside world in a combined effort to help &ldquo;flatten the curve&rdquo; and stop COVID-19 in its tracks.
Those are words we never anticipated writing, but there they are. We&rsquo;ve all read a lot of words in the past few weeks we never imagined reading.
Somewhere along the way (be it the past week for North Americans, a week or two ago for Italy, Spain, and Europe writ large, and up to 90 days ago for China), society&rsquo;s bubble began to burst. That burst continues&mdash;is spreading and enlarging, in fact&mdash;and will get worse before it gets better. For those with discretionary income, now is as good a time as 2008 and 1987 to 'buy low' and invest, but what are the 3.3 million Americans who filed for unemployment last week to do, those living paycheck to paycheck?&nbsp;
As ordinary citizens, we are doing our best to stay abreast of this dynamic, ever-evolving situation that has both personal and professional implications the likes of which many of us have not experienced in our lifetime. And we want to be part of the solution, not the problem, so members of our team will periodically share Tips &amp; Tools, which, for this season, one can rightly describe as tumultuous times. There are no silver bullets (or, if there are, at least we haven&rsquo;t heard of them&hellip;yet), but sometimes it helps to think aloud with others, and to share, particularly if it&rsquo;s constructive, positive, and pragmatically actionable advice.
Our unscheduled submissions in this spontaneous series will not be elaborate, fancy, or overly produced; there simply isn&rsquo;t time, energy, or slush money for that, nor do we believe anyone is particularly interested in reading more than a thousand words from Leath Group on his/her tiny smartphone. But as motivated or moved, we will share small, simple things that are helping our own self-talk or are positively buoying our families, our team members, our clients, or our communities.
Today&rsquo;s small, simple tip is the burst.
If you&rsquo;re like others with whom we&rsquo;ve engaged in recent days, then you&rsquo;ve probably been saying one particular four letter word a lot lately. Not the spicy four-letter words we&rsquo;re discouraged from saying as children, or in mixed company, or in places of worship, but rather, an ordinary four-letter word that hides in plain sight and goes uncensored.
In truth, maybe it&rsquo;s not so much a full word as it is the root of a word: RUPT.
Think of all the words this tiny root produces:
Rupture
Interrupt
Abrupt
Erupt
Disrupt
Corrupt
Bankrupt
The root of all those words, rupt, simply means to burst, but it&rsquo;s a somewhat violent word.
Aspects of your life right now (if they have not already begun to transition beyond the phase of &ldquo;suspended animation&rdquo;) are likely interrupted because the whole world (and life as we know it) has been disrupted. This massive disruption has sent more and more of us into residential isolation where routines are also bursting. In fact, you&rsquo;re likely discovering all sorts of new interruptions daily, challenges you&rsquo;ve never experienced before.
The original Latin word, rupture, meant fracture, like a bone breaking. The metaphor is fitting, no? The current pain points have happened suddenly (abruptly), are distressing, and will require time to correct. In fact, whether you&rsquo;re a COVID-19 denier or doomsdayer, the truth of the matter is that economies have been wrecked, healthcare capacity is hemorrhaging, and it will take several weeks, months, or, in some domains, perhaps even years for equilibrium to be restored.
So, the big question for today is simply What can I do about it?
The first step begins with acknowledging reality. In fact, that&rsquo;s the first step in every successful recovery program. It&rsquo;s okay to feel anxious, unmoored, perhaps even angry. Life is definitely not fair; we&rsquo;re not always dealt a winning hand; no one enjoys losing control. Uncertainty is scary.
But here we are, in the void, so it&rsquo;s time to accept the facts of the moment. Composure must be regained before it can be maintained, and it&rsquo;s up to you&mdash;an influencer at work, at home, in your community&mdash;to screw your head on straight and pull yourself together. People are looking to you, counting on you for the tone that you set. If you&rsquo;re calm, others are inclined to be calm. If you&rsquo;re panicky, others may panic, too, and panic is terribly destructive. (&ldquo;Panic purchasing,&rdquo; in fact, has disrupted supply chains around the world. Exhibit 1: Toilet Paper.)
Rather than being fearful, what if you were opportunistic?
After all, what we are experiencing shall eventually pass, sure as the sun will rise again tomorrow. And then, of course, there will always be something new, something next. The next thing. That, too, is certain. Our world, our ecosystems, are living, breathing entities, and as such, they change, they adapt, they evolve, they transform and are transformed. Heraclitus wrote, "In the same river we both step and do not step, we are and are not." That&rsquo;s the nature of...nature. Flow, flow, flow.
As for today, we encourage you to find your routine, your schedule, some sense of normalcy and stability amid the new (ab)normal business as (un)usual, and get yourself moored. Once you&rsquo;re anchored&mdash;be it to faith, philosophy, safe shelter, approved social distancing strategies, virtual communication tools, or that notorious toilet paper roll in the restroom&mdash;turn your eyes to your ever-expanding locus of control.
We&rsquo;ll share some tips and tools to do so now and again, but remember, bursts and breaks are not restored immediately, but rather, bit by creeping bit, so cut yourself some slack and give yourself some grace. And practice patience. This may not be a terribly long journey, but it won&rsquo;t be an overnight recovery, either. Mind the rocks and waves, yes, but keep your eyes on the lighthouse as you swim to the next buoy.
T4/Article 1 (Burst Bubble) Applications:
<ol>
<li>Check your thinking: Are you currently denying or doomsdaying the effects of COVID-19</li>
<li>What would others say about your behavior in recent days?</li>
<li>Are there any &lsquo;rupts&rsquo; or &lsquo;bursts&rsquo; in your personal or professional life in recent days? If so, what are they? What might be the short-term consequences of them (and long-term, if they persist)?</li>
<li>What are the factual realities you&rsquo;re facing? What are the feared/most extreme realities you may face in the not-so-distant future? Are these likely, or mostly hyperbole?</li>
<li>Despite the fears and the losses (be they real or imagined), what opportunities exist in this 'purgatory period'? How might you 'seize the day'?</li>
<li>And finally, what are some activities or routines that you can begin each day to remain grounded and create a sense of normalcy? Is there some future state&mdash;or end goal, belief, or philosophy&mdash;to which you can fix your eyes and remain stable in coming days and weeks?</li>
</ol>
Answers to these questions (which we also encourage you to share with those around you, by the way) are good starters toward increasing your self-awareness and becoming socially accountable, and social accountability is not only a stepping stone toward positive reinforcement, but also toward new habit-creation.
Until next time, onward and upward!
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TIPS & TOOLS, Article 1: "Is Your Bubble Bursting?"

&lsquo;Tis the season of commencements galore (tonight our family had to divide and conquer to attend concurrent graduations), so the once original &ldquo;Oh, the Places You'll Go!&rdquo; has now become tired and trite, BUT, I must say: Seeing a tight-knit group of 52 graduates whoop, holler, embrace one another, and eventually cry with joy&hellip;is a breathtakingly beautiful sight to behold. Especially right up close.
These kids have worked SO hard, for SO long, and often in concert with one another, that it really is rewarding to see them graduate. Something so deceptively simple, but 18 years or nearly 158,000 hours in the making.
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I do hope they will pause, though&mdash;savor the moment&mdash;before leaning their shoulders into whatever&rsquo;s next.
I don&rsquo;t know about you, but I spent three decades too many looking ahead, living in the future and rarely in the moment&hellip;when all we REALLY have is now, and now, and now, and now. The future is merely a concept, a mental construct, until it manifests in the present as another now.
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&ldquo;I'm trying to free your mind, Neo. But I can only show you the door. You&rsquo;re the one who has to walk through it.&rdquo;
&ldquo;Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.&rdquo;
&ldquo;Worry is interest paid in advance on a debt that never exists.&rdquo;
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"If we shadows have offended, think but this and all is mended: that you have but slumber'd here while these visions did appear."
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Sure, carpe diem, but stop and smell the roses for cryin&rsquo; out loud. You&rsquo;ve earned it and will never be as young again as you were today.
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My Charge to Graduates

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&ldquo;For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.&rdquo;&nbsp; &mdash;1 Timothy 6:10
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Beneath the stars and beside a roaring fire, I stood and listened to the words of a wise man the other night; one who has literally seen it all. &ldquo;My mentor told me,&rdquo; he began, &ldquo;that all manner of depravity&nbsp;can be traced to five simple sources: sex, substances, money, power, and pride.&rdquo;
All my life I'd heard about pride, greed, lust, envy, gluttony, wrath, and sloth.
I don't care how one counts these things,&nbsp;as they&nbsp;feel like "six of one, half a dozen of the other," be they five or seven!
The bottom line is that&mdash;after 49 years on this&nbsp;giant, orbiting hairball&mdash;I'd say&nbsp;the&nbsp;path to peace is&nbsp;not paved with good intentions or great deeds, but rather, with contentment.
Faith, hope, and love are the inward and outward manifestations of a life deeply rooted and well-lived,&nbsp;but&nbsp;contentment is a consequence of self-control (one of nine fruits of the spirit) or, said another way, without self-control there&nbsp;can be no contentment.
Happily, contentment also leads to peace (and peace is a force multiplier), so consider it a two, three,&nbsp;five, seven, or ninefer.
Want for too much more, and one welcomes the wrath of self-destruction into his&nbsp;head and heart.

Contentment

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<h4 style="text-align: center; text-transform: uppercase;">"perseverance, Coming of age, COMPETITION, grit &amp; THE GRIDIRON, Finding father figures, becoming promotable, AMERICAN AIRLINES DAYS WITH BOB CRANDALL, vision &amp; mission, entrepreneurship&nbsp;&amp; personal ownership, parenting &amp; social styles, correctness &amp; culture, the pence rule, surrendering to god, the magnolia miracle, chip &amp; joanna gaines, focus, balance, family, and finally: perspective for trying times"</h4>
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FIRESIDE Season One&nbsp;concludes in very much the same vein with&nbsp;which it began: a gesture of remembrance, appreciation, and honor.&nbsp; 
This final installment of 2017&nbsp;goes out as a&nbsp;Christmas gift to&nbsp;a dear mentor of mine, and to his precious family.&nbsp;
I trust the gift fits, for I can think of few other&nbsp;treasures I&nbsp;might be in a position to facilitate beyond that of capturing&nbsp;the&nbsp;poignant oral history of a first generation for enjoyment&nbsp;by the second&nbsp;and&nbsp;third.
What better gift than love&nbsp;itself,&nbsp;anyway, and to hear&nbsp;a father reflect with pride upon&nbsp;his son's roles as husband, father, brother, employer, friend and, most movingly, a man of faith?
And what a wonderful opportunity for&nbsp;each of us to&nbsp;say&nbsp;thanks&nbsp;to a family that has given so much of themselves, so thoroughly, so fully, so authentically, so honestly. I count myself among the many people who have been buoyed by the Gaineses, by their private and public example, and altogether stirred by their testimony and&nbsp;demonstration of goodwill toward men during otherwise and often divisive times.
This being the backdrop and context, then, I offer&nbsp;FIRESIDE No. 17 with Bob Gaines&nbsp;as&nbsp;our finale and last hurrah (presented&nbsp;in the&nbsp;spirit of&nbsp;Paul Harvey's "the Rest of the Story"), primarily opening wide&nbsp;the curtains&nbsp;to Bob's personal and professional journeys (remarkable on&nbsp;their&nbsp;own merits),&nbsp;and secondarily to his exceptional, front-row seat&nbsp;to son Chip's impacts on business, popular culture and, increasingly, altruistic causes and philanthropic endeavors. 
My 2-hour interview with Bob is presented in three parts in two formats.&nbsp;(Whichever medium you choose&mdash;audio or video&mdash;I suggest starting at the beginning, with Part 1, as succeeding parts build upon&nbsp;and reference those preceding.)&nbsp;
Podcast/Audio:&nbsp;
<a href="https://leath.podbean.com/e/fireside-no-17-with-bob-gaines-part-1-the-formative-years/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Part 1: The Formative Years</a> <a href="https://leath.podbean.com/e/fireside-no-17-with-bob-gaines-part-2-career/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Part 2: Career</a> <a href="https://leath.podbean.com/e/fireside-no-17-with-bob-gaines-part-3-magnolia-fever-the-fixer-upper-phenomenon/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Part 3: Magnolia Fever &amp; The Fixer Upper Phenomenon</a>
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YouTube/Video:
<a href="https://youtu.be/YzQhJPZ0LCA" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Part 1: The Formative Years</a> <a href="https://youtu.be/HRPg2H4g_DY" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Part 2: Career</a> <a href="https://youtu.be/MzVDMw6usi4">Part 3: Magnolia Fever &amp; The Fixer Upper Phenomenon</a>
My&nbsp;hope and belief is that Bob's life experiences and powerful words will be&nbsp;an&nbsp;inspiration to you and your family in the coming year&mdash;whatever your role or situation&mdash;as we&nbsp;each endeavor to&nbsp;build better lives&nbsp;(often against great odds of our own) and to more positively impact the lives of those around us.
To that end, and on behalf of all my colleagues at Leath Group and the Leath family, I wish you a&nbsp;wondrous 2018,&nbsp;and thank everyone&mdash;like Bob&mdash;for bringing&nbsp;their tremendous personal and vocational stories to life, and for making&nbsp;FIRESIDE Season One possible.&nbsp;&nbsp;
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Visit&nbsp;Magnolia Market at <a href="https://magnoliamarket.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">magnoliamarket.com</a>, the <a href="https://www.target.com/c/hearth-hand-with-magnolia/-/N-4k98u" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Hearth &amp; Hand with Magnolia collection at Target</a>, or the silos themselves (and garden, baking co., and so much more) at 601 Webster Avenue, Waco, TX 76706.
When in Waco, be sure and&nbsp;grab a bite at&nbsp;<a href="https://magnoliamarket.com/our-restaurant-update/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Magnolia Table,</a>&nbsp;opening soon.
Subscribe to <a href="https://magnoliamarket.com/journal/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Magnolia Journal</a> for inspirations for life and home.
Catch current and prior episodes of <a href="http://www.hgtv.com/shows/fixer-upper" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Fixer Upper</a> on HGTV, and <a href="http://www.hgtv.com/shows/fixer-upper-behind-the-design" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Fixer Upper: Behind the Design </a>beginning this spring.
Follow @chipgaines and @joannagaines and @magnolia and @MagnoliaHomesTX and @MagnoliaRealty on Twitter or Instagram for comings, goings, fun projects, announcements, and general happenings in the year ahead.
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AND FINALLY&nbsp;&mdash;
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My heartfelt thanks this&nbsp;season&nbsp;to you, the faithful reader, listener, and viewer, for engaging in and supporting this&nbsp;autumn experiment.
To&nbsp;Rheagan Baker and Amy Taylor for interview coordination and the Herculean task of&nbsp;transcribing approximately 34 hours and 215,000 words of conversation (more than enough to fill four mainstream books).&nbsp;To Sharon Anderson for proofreading and editing&nbsp;it all.&nbsp;To Dave Rigdon for research and&nbsp;FIRESIDE&nbsp;branding, identity, and logo stamp creation.&nbsp;To JR. Forasteros, Richard and Heather van der Dys, Jen Cho,&nbsp;Clay Morgan, and Scott Cornelius for technical,&nbsp;web, podcast, YouTube, and social media leadership.&nbsp;To Stan Chou for 17 beautiful illustrations. To&nbsp;Rob Rigdon for all things engineering (audio and video recording, music, effects, mixing, and sound editing).&nbsp;To Katie Byrd and Dawn Leath for turning this sow&rsquo;s ear into a silk purse or, more specifically, two gorgeous leather&nbsp;volumes for&nbsp;each guest and his/her family.&nbsp;
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And of course, my&nbsp;everlasting appreciation to Joe Brouillette, Bob Pennington, Mary Ober, Lou Romero, Gary Moreau, Alan Friedman, Dr. Knute Sorenson, John Moore, Dr. Howard Johnson, Michelle Kinder, Susan Thoma, Bob Spencer, Dick Reynolds, Dr. Steve Buchholz, Ray Harmon, Dr. Charles Lowery, and Bob Gaines for leaping without looking into my tiny dinghy and joining me on&nbsp;her maiden voyage with nary a map, compass, star, proof of concept, nor body of work to&nbsp;preview. I am forever indebted to you for your courage, trust, participation, and setting such an exceedingly high bar in this,&nbsp;our&nbsp;inaugural season.&nbsp;
To learn the impetus behind&nbsp;FIRESIDE, <a href="http://www.leathgroup.com/blog/post/introducing-fireside" target="_blank" rel="noopener">click here</a> or <a href="http://www.leathgroup.com/blog/post/fireside-coming-tomorrow" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a> or follow us on LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram @blakeleath and @leathgroupllc, and (God willing), please consider joining us again next autumn for&nbsp;FIRESIDE Season Two.
To nominate or recommend future interviewees,&nbsp;please contact us at&nbsp;<a href="mailto:connect@leathgroup.com">connect@leathgroup.com</a>.
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FIRESIDE No. 17 with Bob Gaines

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"the adam suit, difficulty changing, instant gratification, blessing others, thank you, position vs. personality, q-tip, burnout, the emotional tank, truth-tellers, the mission in miniature, church lady, the problem with layers, the power of personal, valleys &amp; peaks, the power of belief, psycho-logical, seligman&rsquo;s three p&rsquo;s, practical vs. platitudes, pursuing your dream, looking back &amp; looking ahead"
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In honor of Advent, we present FIRESIDE No. 16 with Dr. Charles Lowery&lt;&lt;in stereo&gt;&gt;.&nbsp;May his words be both a blessing and an encouragement to you this Christmas.&nbsp;
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From&nbsp;our Leath Group family to yours,&nbsp;we send you our warmest holiday wishes.
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Visit Dr. Lowery at <a href="http://charleslowery.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">charleslowery.com</a>.
To learn the impetus behind&nbsp;Fireside,&nbsp;<a href="http://www.leathgroup.com/blog/post/introducing-fireside" target="_blank" rel="noopener">click here</a>&nbsp;or&nbsp;<a href="http://www.leathgroup.com/blog/post/fireside-coming-tomorrow" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a>,&nbsp;and&nbsp;please join us again next Wednesday, December 27th, for the very special 3-part finale of&nbsp;FIRESIDE Season One.
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